His confession: He cannot jerk off without thinking about me.
We are both 24 yo. Met on a dating app, really fell for each other, I got a job in another country and had to move. We decided to call it a day.
Of course I still have feelings for him. He was adamant he didn’t want a LDR, which is fair, so I let things be. Never made advances after that.
Last week, he messaged me out of the blue. Didn’t hear from him in four months. We’re both still single and I’m still kinda hung up on him and don’t wanna date someone new just yet.
So he drops this bomb that he can’t cum to porn or another woman. I am still processing this because it’s a first for me to hear such a strange confession.
Make it make sense, please?
Does he still have feelings for me? Why is this happening to him? Should I respond? What does this all mean! 😠I made a throwaway just because I’m so bothered by this mindfuck.
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Make it make sense? I’m not sure that there is necessarily a rational explanation, but if I had to take a guess, I’d say that he was feeling bad about the break up and is trying to somehow manipulate you, so that you can feel bad too… already minimum provoker response from you.
If you’re not interested in reconnecting with him, I would simply ignore the message.
One thing I will say is that for a 24-year-old, he does not have very good impulse control, and seems to be unaware of the impact of his behavior on other people.