I literally can barely even type this I am shaking so much. My (23F) dad came home early, he usually finishes work at 7pm but he came home at 2pm??? and I was masturbating in my room not only with a vibrator but I also moaned because I am never home alone ever and I was just trying to relax and I walked out of my room and all his work bags were outside. You have to walk past my room to go into the house so I know he heard me.
I am shaking, mortified, freaking out, I haven’t left my room, I am so freaked out and scared and I feel horrible I genuinely feel so horrible. What do I do????
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Take a deep breath it’s okay. I know it feels mortifying now, this happens more than you think. If your dad heard anything, he’ll likely pretend it didn’t happen. You don’t need to bring it up. Give it time and act normal. The awkwardness will pass. You’re not alone in going through something like this.
It’s awkward but normal. Just chill for now. Later, say “Sorry if you heard me” No big deal, don’t stress
It’s ok. He’ll probably think you’re dreaming.
Lol it was way worse for him. He probably going to avoid you for like 4 years
You both pretend it never happened. Just act normal. First you don’t really know. Don’t so anything to confirm that.
Just take that one percent unknown and use that to pretend nothing happened.
Alternative plan. Find a raunchy tv show. Watch it on a tablet and walk out of the room with it in a sexy part. Then he’ll think that’s what you were doing. Make it obvious
People do moan in their sleep. Just say you took a nap.
Relax! You haven’t committed a sin or something. You are 18+. It might feel horrible now but just in a couple of days or maximum a week, you’ll get past this. Happens with a lot of people. Don’t bring it up. And I am pretty sure he won’t either. Even I have been caught at least couple of time, as far as I can remember!
We have kids your age and older, coming from a parent, this is far better than you getting pregnant while still living at home. If you were my child, I would simply go on with life. I wouldn’t say a word.
As a dad (42M) I don’t give a Fck if my kid do it’s business, after all it’s a natural thing to do. You were in your room with the door closed. But I would appreciate if there was some music to cover the sound. (And if I know what is happening I would leave the house and let you alone for maybe 1h, 1h30). And if I have to be at home for something I would message you that I will be back home in 15min for X, Y or Z…
Don’t worry too much.
My advice is to move out.
Just pretend it didn’t happen and don’t bring it up! That would be way weirder. It happens when you live with others. The embarrassment will pass eventually (with maybe moments of remembering).
As embarrassing as this situation feels to you, try to relax. You’re a grown adult, it’s normal. I’m sure he’s just as embarrassed for accidentally hearing you, just act as if nothing happened, he will too, and you’ll both probably eventually forget about it
Nothing,… what do you want to talk about it with him? He doesn’t either. Just lock it in the vault push it off a cliff in the back of your head and move on,… he will likely do the same.
Think about it this way,…. at least if you were doing that, you weren’t out with some loser bf who works a minimum wage job and gets you knocked up. (No offense), as a father all my girls (future) bfs will be losers.
Just pretend it never happened im sure he will do the same.
Never mention it, and you’ll be fine. He doesn’t care, and he’ll be happy to ignore it if you let him. Everyone just carry on with their lives. it never happened!
Parents usually know or at least hear you, but they don’t normally bring it up because they know it’s embarrassing. My parents have definitely heard me, but they haven’t said anything about it to me ever. You’re fine and it’s completely normal 🙂
there’s nothing to do. the embarrassed feeling will pass with time. check the house before you do it next time, or be quiet about it.
If I’m your dad, I would like you to do that rather than bring some unknown guy inside the house!
Speaking as a father, we know you do it. Most of us don’t care. We changed you when you were young. We wiped the poop out of your butt until you got older. We bought you bras and panties and tampons and pads. And we use to do the same when we were your age. A lot of us would be more worried if you weren’t doing it.
Now he’s going to think that’s what you always do every day between 2pm and 7pm! 😂
Just keep acting like everything is normal. Don’t bring it up or apologize or anything. He’s probably trying his hardest to put it in the back of his mind so he won’t think about it anymore. So bringing it up will make more memories about the situation. Just let it pass and realize when he was younger how his mom or dad or sibling probably walked IN on him in the process or found some magazine.. don’t worry. Heck there’s probably worse than that he might have more embarrassing stuff and probably couldn’t give a crap. You’re human. Everyone does it. And if you don’t, you’re just trying to prove (for some odd ass reason) that you’re better than everyone else. OR you were lied to about going blind or getting hairy hands and you are scared shitless lmao
Although it happened, you two can pretend it never happened. It may be awkward for a while, but time will heal it. BTW parents know everything, and basically everyone will do that, so don’t stress.
Give it time. You can’t undo it and he can’t unhear it. You’re just embarrassed because it just happened. Masturbating is normal and I’m sure your dad will forget about it
It’s scary af right now but eventually you will be old enough to laugh really hard at this.
Everybody has been there, don’t worry that much about it. It’s okay.
Better a vibrator than a fornicator.
Honestly, I’m wondering why so loud.
You were once your dads orgasm, ain’t no thang
That’s embarrassing but you are both adults. You can choose to address or pretend you both don’t know
Well sooner or later someone on this planet was going to get caught masturbating, and it’s such a major no-no I’m sure the Sex Police are en route. Make a plea deal with Daddy if you can.
U need to just calm down and understand that it’s natural and if your father really love you he’ll understand what you going thru. And you might have to have a difficult conversation later but that’s just cause he care about you fr. But everybody does it ngl. I wouldn’t sweat it too hard I feel like it’s a right of passage to get caught up stroking ur shit (or playing country on the clitar, no disrespect fr). It happens sometimes man we only human fr
Take a deep breath — it’s okay. Seriously. Embarrassing? Sure. End of the world? Not even close.
Your dad may have heard, but trust that he won’t want to talk about it any more than you do. Just act normal. This kind of thing happens — you’re human, he’s human, and it’s a private moment that unfortunately overlapped. With time, it’ll fade from both your memories.
First of all who masturbates at 2pm?? Thats a random time. Anyways if he heard u he would of coughed or knocked. Im sure your safe.
He will be like, ab meri beti badi ho gyi hai 😂
But seriously, everyone goes through a thing like this. It’s as hard for him to face you as it is for you. Try to act normal, you are 23 after all 😉 and be careful next time.
this will pass. if you think your parent(s) isn’t aware that you masturbate, you’re wrong.
you should be considering why you feel negative. yeah, we don’t want to announce to our parents that we’re cranking one out, but you’re a human being; and grabbing some pleasure here and there should be expected and accepted.
i’m certain he didn’t dwell on it and quickly moved onto other areas and things.
Damn bro 🔥 I’d rather jump off the terrace than let my father find out about this.”
My mum came home while I was banging a fwb once. I realised she was home, got dressed, told her I had a friend over. She was like ‘oh crap I’m sorry, I’ll go down to the office’. I went back and finished. Adults have sex and masturbate. It’s embarrassing but you’ll all get over it.
You are both adults. Is it awkward? Yes. Is it ok to never talk about it? Also, yes.
Don’t ask. Don’t tell. Don’t worry. Everyone does it.
Nothing to worry about unless you live with a bigoted monster – everyone has sexual urges and I’m sure your dad does too, so he’ll understand. Furthermore, you are 23 years old and it is more than normal at that age to have certain desires. We are in 2025 and it is time to clear sexual well-being also through a healthy and correct masturbatory practice! For next time, at most, if this worry makes you anxious, pay more attention… for the rest, have fun. 😉