So I (22M) went to high school with this guy (currently 22/23M) who was always very loud about his attraction to women and how much he wanted to fuck them. We were teenagers at the time so I assumed it was either some stupid joke or if he was serious that he’d at least grow out of it. One of the people these comments were directed at were my other schoolmate’s younger sister (currently 20F), who I would later get together with. I always saw him do it in front of either her brother or me, assuming he was just trying to make stupid teenager statements to piss us off. He also only talked that way about women behind their backs, so he didn’t even stand behind his gross statements. Acting all brave and manly (he is conventionally attractive and works out and shit) but really just a weird wimp.
Fast forward to now, 4 years later, I hadn’t really talked to the guy much in a while, we only ran into each other a couple of times on the train, and he often just ignored me in public for no apparent reason. I didn’t hear about more of his weird behaviour so I assumed that maybe he’d finally grown up a bit. However, a few days ago, my girlfriend (still the same one, we’ve been together for 4 years and a half now) ran into him and some of his friends, all drunk. She didn’t know his friends so they kind of introduced each other and then one of them said the following when he realised who she was (translated from my language):
“Oh, he’s always talking about how much he wants to fuck [insert my gf’s brother’s name]’s little sister!”
That was said as a funny little joke and it confirms that he talks about her even when me or her brother are not around. Now I’m legitimately mad and feel stupid for letting him talk shit all those years ago. Such a little manchild and then he wonders why no woman actually wants him. I wish harm upon him. Am I overreacting? My gf is saying that they were drunk so maybe they were just saying shit but I’m not buying that. Idk where I’m going with this, I just needed to put this down somewhere. Thanks for reading.