Mid Forties women dating a mid forties man. Just broke up because I’m scared that my ex is a pedophile.
My ex boyfriend again mid 40’s came to me with fears he might be a pedophile. I’ve met his children. But not his ex wife or mother of a second child. He told me last week that he feels sick with himself for having urges for young women. And that what he did to his ex’s was sick and disgusting. I didn’t understand at first. I just took this as a reg flag to break up. And remove my 14 year old daughter from any contact with him.
I just found out that both his ex wife and the mother of his other child are their early 30’s. He started dating them both before they were of legal age, when he was in his early to mid 30’s. His ex wife was the sister of his best friend. He knew her all her life. She was 4 when they graduated high school. He has never started dating anyone when they were of legal age. I want to throw up.
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You did the right thing in getting your child away from that man. He needs to seek therapy, to the extent it will help at all.