So my ex (27F) reached out to me last week wanting to talk. We dated for almost 3 years and it ended after I found out she cheated and it wasn’t anything vague or questionable it was a full on cheating with someone from her gym. That was about 6 months ago or so. I was a mess for a while but I’ve slowly been putting myself back together. Now she’s saying she “made a huge mistake” and that what we had was real and she wants another chance. She’s been texting me long paragraphs, sending old photos and even called my mom (which was fucking weird). I’ve blocked her pretty much everywhere (the psycho is even sending me emails so I had to block her as well) and she comes around my house at like 12 midnight every night and throws rocks on my house and then leaves. A restraining order feels crazy, but I don’t think I’m left with anything else except doing that or calling the cops on her like what should I do?
My ex wants to get back together after cheating on me
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Yep, definitely the cops. Doesn’t sound like she’s well.
She cheated, and now she’s harassing you. That’s not love. Protect your peace document everything and seriously consider a restraining order. You deserve better.
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah no, call the authoritah on her ass.
Best if you could get footage from a doorcam or smth to show her stalking you at ungodly hours
you gave her the ending. now give yourself the peace. cops, restraining order, whatever it takes. don’t let her rewrite the story just because she regrets it now.
You’re well within your rights to call the cops or file a restraining order. Do what keeps you safe and sane
Block, restraining order, alert your family and friends to do the same. Don’t under react. Overreact!
This is what happens when the grass isn’t greener.
Don’t take her back. If she’s gonna learn from her mistakes she can fix it with the next guy she’s with.
Don’t