My ex wont leave me alone and I have to try everything. This is so stupid too. Cause the relationship was online. We never once seen each other and never even hold hand. That relationship only lasted less than 5 months, was glad to be out of that relationship also. I was 19 at the time and he was 23.
Fast forward to the present, my ex message me on messenger. I don’t get on facebook or messenger much anymore cause bleh. But, I got on it. On Nov 6 to a bunch of message of him accusing me of talking shit about him. ( which I wasn’t doing. I completely forgot about him ) I thought if I say hey! I don’t really know why you are messaging me in the first place. I haven’t been talking about you with anyone.
I thought we fixed things, that was cool now. But I was venting about an abusive ex bf and he thought I was talking about him. Which I swear I wasn’t. He started accusing me of it again, and I told him to leave me alone and that not to contact me again cause he obviously will not believe me. That’s I won’t be his punching bag for something I am not doing. And blocked him on everything.
He is still going off on Twitter about me saying I need to drop dead and stuff. I had called his local police. And nothing is being done.
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Lock down all your privacy settings, remove/block him and live your life. You won’t be running into him in person and he’s not a part of your social circle so you should be able to ghost him out if your life.
You might need to get a lawyer. Check https://rainn.org/news/resources-survivors-stalking-and-cyberstalking
Also, you could block him on various platforms. Twitter is a cesspool anyway, so maybe get off that too.
SImply block him.
I would begin badgering the police like he’s badgering you. Cases like this need ton be taken more seriously because when they escalate, it generally doesn’t end well.
Block him and report his posts.
Block him on all social media, and change all of your settings so only friends can see you.