Hi. So, a little back story to this – my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years now. I really never had any suspicions about him cheating, he was cheated on in the past and he knows how it feels.
So, long story short, we were watching the wolf of wall street today and had a blast, but a comment he said about a scene where Margot Robbie seduces Jordan by showing up to him completely naked really didn’t sit with me well. So, the guy has a wife at home and this beautiful, gorgeous woman shows up naked in front of him and my boyfriend really had to say out loud – who could pass an opportunity like that? I asked him what does he mean by that, jokingly, giving him a way out beacuse I know – it’s Margot Robbie, perhaps the most beautiful woman in the world, but you know, some thoughts can be kept to yourself. He continued to explain – well, if I already put myself in a situation where I’m practically already cheating by going to dinners and coming to her house, what’s sex going to change?
What do you think about his comment?
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sounds like he has poor self control and condones cheating
yikes girlie you might want to talk to him further about this. on a side note Margot Robbie could be influencing his comments lol but still he can’t be saying that
I think it’s innocent. He knows that going out to dinner and over to someone’s house is already hovering around emotional cheating and not ok. There shouldn’t be levels of cheating. Cheating is cheating. So if you’re already allowing yourself to be in said position, the relationship is already over. What would sex change?