Five years ago, my childhood family friend saw a rough spot in my marriage and went after my husband. She even told my sister (her ex-best friend) that our son is a burden she’s glad she wouldn’t have to deal with—pure trash.
While she was still dating him, I texted her, ‘Thank God you’ll never be able to have children due to PCOS and Hashimoto’s—you don’t deserve to be a mother if that’s how you can speak about my son.’ Not my most proud moment but I did say it with my chest.
My husband and I split for four years thereafter; her sad little fling with him died in two months but the hatred towards them still simmered in me. I struggled to let it go.
Last month, my sister, her current best-friend and I saw her at Barnes & Noble, ringing up books, looking beat down by life, completely deflated. She was laid off from a decent paying tech job a few years ago.
To save face she fed us some BS about moving back in with her Mom, “saving for a house” with her part time minimum wage job. It doesn’t make sense, I know folks.
We are Asian and part of the same tight knit community – saving face is extremely important to us. Everyone knows what she did to me. Everyone knows she got laid off and it would be a huge blow to her ego if our community found out she ended up a cashier – MY CASHIER at a Barnes & Noble no less.
I’m not one to gossip so I’m keeping this to myself – well, at least in my real life. I just needed to get it off my chest.
I’m not saying she deserved it but God’s timing is always right.
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I think thats the way all home wrecks need to end up. Or worst.
What goes around comes around! Karma will always get them and seems like it did!