My Father is a soul sucking monster

Brief Points
–> My Mom died 12 years ago
–> i was 16
–> i am a single child
–> my dad didnt marry again
–> i graduated my dad had issues with me moving out , try anything new
–> my dad always manipulated his way out of my any dream or effort just by saying i didnt marry because of you
–> He always wanted me to get a job and stay at till i retire, i switched my careers and have a decent job
–> i married a girl i like , he only agreed to it as he was getting old
–> we still want to move out , but he’s still on the same track , dont do anything new, dont move out , dont do this dont do that, its embarrassing and soul sucking, i just dont want to talk to him or even look at him
–> sometimes i wish i was free from his shackles, he constantly has only 1 point , i payed for your initial education, i didnt marry because of you