My fiancee

TL;DR
My finance is putting too much of financial stress and I can’t handle it.

Me M24 and my fiance F25 been together for a year
We recently got engaged, I’m very focused on
creating family, I got my own apartment as the inheritance from my grandpa, I lived abroad for whole my life and recently moved back to my motherland, I work remotely and my pay is semi decent, its decent apartment, it’s quite small but it got everything one would need, kitchen living room and one bedroom with balcony but it does need bit of patching upp just to remordenize it , recently I bought new citchen and some forniture electronics, etc.
I also bought quite expensive wedding ring, took her on trip to Greece and proposed there so I spend some hefty amount on traveling as well. We agreed to have wedding later on next year but that we would just sign marriage documents until then and live together, I’m very excited about this whole process, but now she demands me to renovate whole house, she wants me to start by buying wardrobe and make up table with the tv Bech all together, then start by renovating house, it’s a process that would take months but she wants me to do it straight away, I still have to buy wedding rings for the ceremony to wear them before the actual wedding that is also very expensive, I just don’t have the facilities to do that straight away, mind you I’m just 24 years old and my first time living alone, when I brought this up we had an argument, I had very stressful night and we had conversation in the morning when she was heading to her job, I had no night sleep and I asked her to chill out with the planning just this morning because I was feeling very tired and irritated, but still she was pushing about me paying for her needs or else she would not be moving in, I explained that she would get everything over time, but she started throwing hurtful words that I would probably never do anything for her and complain about everything being expensive, which I never do, I really do try to give her everything and never spare any money on her, heck I even borrow money from my parents so that she won’t have to miss out on anything while being with me. Her words are affecting me and hurting me very deeply and last straw was when she said, ” if you don’t have the ass to pay for these things why do I rush into marriage” these words stuck to me, I always saw marriage as the partner thing looking at my own parents, how they were doing stuff together, so I thought that I could have that way as well but maybe I was wrong, is she telling me the right thing or I’m I thinking the right way, but all I know that it’s really stressing me out.