It’s essentially what the title says — I’m a gay man in a relationship and my friends, who are all non-binary or women (lots of us are trans, etc.) like to make fun of the fact that I have sex. It seems to be the butt of a joke to them that I have sex at all with my partner, so much so that I try to avoid bringing him up in the first place around them. Is it normal to have friends laugh about your sex life, or am I overreacting? I try not to bring it up that much — when I first got into a relationship a few months ago, I talked about it some, but I’ve since stopped for a while.
tl;dr: the butt of the joke is that I have sex, and I’m not sure how to feel about it