randome text, not after anything that it makes sense to say after.
it was an hour ago i only saw now
shes after a broken engagment and is prone to depression
on pills though i think
and i tried to call now and she isnt answering
im right to freak out, right?
should i call her parents or something? i dont have their number but maybe i can find it
or i am i going too far? im not, right?
help. both 22F.
ok, shes ok!! false alarm.
i called again and she answered, i asked if shes ok and expleined the text seemed out of nowhere and she was like “yeah no youre right i get why you worried”. all good!
thank you all for responding though.
btw im not from the US and no idea whats a wellness check.
also she lives around 2 hours away and i do not have a car, nor her address even cause were both at our parents on weekends.
but otherwise that would have been a good idea, thank you.
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she attempted before, but she said shes better now and past that for years
i really need advice
only friends like 6 months or so but me and another girl are the closest friends she has
Honestly, I’d call in a wellness check, but maybe that’s just me. If she’s prone to suicidal tendencies, I wouldn’t play around with something like this. Good luck, I hope she’s alright.
Are you in the US? If so, maybe you can call a wellness check if you have her address. It might scare her but if you’re really worried maybe it will be a good idea to call and check.
Yes you are right to worry. Are you able to go check on them?
Go check on them
Anyway to maybe go and check on her or say if you don’t answer I’m coming over? If you have mutuel friends get them to reach out to her. Hope she’s ok
You should check on them
(I fear it’s too late)
As someone who has attempted before and is also on pills. They don’t fix everything. Reach out to anyone and everyone you can. Go to them.
Edit for clarity
I would either A. Go there myself and check. B. Have her parents check. C. Have another friend who lives closer check.
Now this is only my opinion: then wellness check last. You said she does pills. If that’s the case if police do a wellness check go in and she’s ok or blasted drunk, if they find pills they will charge her for the pills as well. That can carry long consequences for life. Potentially lose her job. Once police go in her house, everything can be evidence. So my opinion last resort.
But yes 100% check on her.
Either get to their place now or if you are afraid of what you might find, call 911 for a wellness check for them.
Either check on them or call the police for a wellness check
Did u call 911 for a wellness check ASAP? If not do it now! Take this seriously! I’ve seen it myself! Please update us!
Call her parents
Check on her and call the authorities and parents asap and dw she’s probably just taking a nap or something but yeah just to be safe check on her and call parents and authorities