we were on bad terms for about 2 days due to her being angry my phone was acting up and I wasn’t getting notifications on my phone

she’s been really dry then today I told her I love her and she said it back and it made me happy, but after work a guy popped up on my Instagram ( her ex ) and I messaged her sent proof, and she was telling me to calm down.

she was following him and he was following her, I then asked her why? she began telling me it was because HE takes care of her mom’s yard and she didn’t wanna tell me at all, and the thing is she’s been going over to her mom’s house a lot recently to watch her grandpa so I don’t trust that anymore.

she told me she knew how I’d react so she didn’t tell me, but she only followed him to see if it was anything regarding her mom, but her mom has his number so why would she need to follow him??

I told her to record on her phone showing that hes blocked in imessage still, she showed me but afterwards when she fell asleep I looked at the video again and saw a split second of a guy with her exes name in her messages, its such a coincidence right?

but she was basically blaming me also saying ” everything is on my shoulders and she needed help, ur not even asking to help her out or give her money ” or this this that and telling me this is why she hasn’t been talking to me.

she was guilt tripping me and making me feel bad and I don’t trust her at all.

TL;DR GF was following ex and I don’t trust her anymore and started to blame me.