My gf (25F) seems overwhelmed by me (29M)

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TL;DR,
My gf is overwhelmed with me and I don’t know what to do.

At the beginning of our relationship, she was all over me, lots of kissing, cuddling, intimacy. Now 6 months later, she’s moved in (we were LDR). Now when I go to kiss her, cuddle her, she shows no interest. She often even says that I’m bothering her or overstimulating her. We have had conversations about this. I am trying to pull back but it’s painful, I just want to give my girlfriend a hug and kiss after work. She acts uninterested in me and it’s frustrating. She doesn’t compliment me anymore, or initiate anything. I really feel like a lot of my needs aren’t met. Do I continue to pull away and hope she comes to me? I love her dearly.

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  1. SadExercises420 Avatar

    Has she explained herself when you have these convos? What does she say?