So I will keep this short, My GF cheated on me with my good friend, I saw their chats on his phone and he had a bunch of nudes of her and their chats made me broken.
I broke up with her, it’s been 2 weeks and I still am not feeling well. I don’t know why but I can’t get over her, I can’t sleep or eat properly and their chats keep popping up in my head.
I never wanted to talk about this and I haven’t done with anyone but I just couldn’t keep it in me and honestly I don’t trust anyone to talk about this.
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My friend, I hope you can recover. I know this feels impossible to realize right now, but this will pass. You will meet someone else and you will be happy again. My only hope is that you do not bring this betrayal into your next relationship. Best of luck, go out, touch the grass, be around people. There are billioins of people out there. You will love again.
Its still fresh. 2 weeks is not enough. It’ll pass. It fucking blows, but it will pass.
Give yourself some time bro, you’ll be good, for now you can distract yourself with work, or staying around your friends and family
one common culprit in these situations is self ego too, acknowledge, accept and adopt … they did a shitty shitty thing. you have the right to be mad, but don’t make it about “why am i not good enough that she had to cheat”. that will keep you in the hellscape for months if you don’t get over that part. or the cousin of that “i want to get her back, ill show him!” … no, she either didn’t like you enough or you did something to piss her off and she fucked him out of spite. not asking for details but typically, fold in stoicism, accept what you can’t change/control and move on. natural cleansing of bad people from life, it happens to everyone (events of similar severity i mean). but 2 weeks is nothing… it took me 6 months to get over an ex that i caught lying and likely cheating on me. But the beauty is… you do get over it and it’s amazing when you are over it. just avoid the mental prison i aforementioned.