Okay so it happend like a month ago i think they flirted in school and i called her out on that cuz it wasnt cool she said shes sorry and then for the next month it was cool. Then i see that she has him in his following and followers so they follow eachother on ig and tiktok. Im really jealouse and worried , should i call her out on that? i feel like its a disrespect to me cuz she knew how the previous thing affected me. Let me know guys i dont really know if my feelings are valid or im tripping
My gf followed a guy that she flirted with a while ago
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That’s a slap in the face and she knows it, following him again after crossing the line. Call her out now and demand a choice because loyalty doesn’t flirt with betrayal.
huge red flag, she knows she’s bringing you into a difficult position
You sound too young to date
she doesnt care about you, she is seeking fun with this guy its something “she shouldnt be doing”, he is the cool guy she wants or at least enjoyes the attention , you need to stay your ground, even break up with her hey i told you about this and you totally ignore me and its dissrespectfull i am breaking up with you. and there are 2 outcomes :
she doesnt care => you dodged a bullet
she will try to make it up to you ( i guess you are in highschooll or so, she is not the keeper but you can play with her emotions, bcouse she is controled by them and reacting inpulsivly => when she will feel that she is loosing you => she will translate this to oh my god i actually love him i cant lose him and she will adjust her self) probably for only some period of time, if you are young she will want to explore as she is doing now so, being layed back and not giving a fuck is the way to go bcouse you are not looking for a true love in the era anyway
This is just a huge red flag dude. If she didn’t listen the first time, just leave. No fucking point in risking yourself getting hurt, it truly sucks. I’m 30 years old here, been in 4 actual relationships, 3 of them I got betrayed in. Sucks dude. Those 3 relationships they all cheated and fucked the guy i had a gut feeling about, they follow, he’s just a friend and a little too friendly when in person. These little things I didn’t see as a big deal, i communicated with them but they promised it’s nothing. And my mom would always tell me they’re red flags but I chose to ignore them. And she was right EVERY SINGLE TIME. It’s like moms have a 6th sense dude, it’s crazy. Same with my brother, she or our older sister would tell him about these minor things as red flags but he would actually listen and leave before the damage was done or before anything would happen. Now, I’m all fucked up, trust issues and over thinking. I know not everyone’s the same but it’s just hard in the moment.
When you break up with her, we all already know who her next bf will be. Sad but it’s just the way it is