my gf followed her ex, should i leave?

r/

Basically, my girlfriend (22F) and I (21M) got into a fight last week and she took it upon herself to follow her ex! I confronted her and she told me that she would block her and we essentially smoothed things over. Fast foward a week or so later, I find out she in fact still does follow said ex and honestly I am about ready to leave ! We’ve been together a little over 3 years and our anniversary is coming up, but over the last year there has been several issues come up about Her & other people in general, and handful are of her and this same ex! so I am just over it and not sure what to do ?

TLDR: my gf follows her ex and has continously thrown other people in my face, should i leave?

Comments

  1. Brave-Soldier Avatar

    You already have the answer, she isn’t anymore 100% with you and her ex probably will be the guy that she will hook up with after you break up because she’s already preparing her backup.

  2. Coold000 Avatar

    Yeah, you probably should.

    Repetative lying about contact with exes is never a good sign. Not during issues, not in general. That she’s capable of lying to your face shows too.

  3. Altruistic-Patient-8 Avatar

    An argument and she followed her ex after that. No loyalty.

  4. LexiconVII Avatar

    Sounds exhausting. Just stop putting in as much effort and see what she does. Probably wants to get back with ex anyway, so just let her if that’s where her mind’s at.

  5. IntelligentCapSoftly Avatar

    Yeah man, sounds like you’ve hit your limit. Nothing wrong with walking away if trust’s already worn it.