My gf is pregnant and I found out that she cheated on me. I gave her a second chance and she did it again while she was 14 weeks pregnant.
Last week, she told that she wants us to have a family and that she’s would do anything to make it work. What should I do? I’m lost
My gf is pregnant and I found out that she cheated on twice
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I’m really sorry you’re going through this no one deserves to feel this kind of pain, especially during such a vulnerable and emotional time. It’s incredibly confusing to have someone say they want a family with you while their actions repeatedly break your trust. You’ve already shown so much patience and strength by giving her a second chance, and it’s okay to feel lost right now.
Please remember this: you matter too. Your feelings, your trust, and your peace of mind are just as important as the future of this family. Take your time to reflect on what you truly want not out of pressure, guilt, or fear, but out of care for your own well-being. Whether you choose to stay or step away, let it be a choice rooted in what’s best for your heart and your future.
Lean on those who support you. You don’t have to face this alone.
If a girl would cheat on you while she’s pregnant, she would do anything she feels like doing to you. You better leave. She doesn’t respect you at all. And get a paternity test before you sign the birth certificate as well.
Worst nightmare honestly
Drop her ass, demand a paternity test, and only communicate through your lawyer.
Man you better leave that bitch. She let another man fuck her period but while shes 14 weeks pregnant!!!! That man dick was hitting yo baby head and he was probably rubbin her belly while he hit her from the back. Definition of a simp, if you stay with her she’ll never respect you and gonna always cheat on you💯
I’d love to be your girlfriend, knowing that you’ll give me second chances with any horrible things I would do(I’m poking you on purpose)
If you stayed with a cheater, you really have no respect for yourself, and she doesn’t either.
Set aside the cheating, you allow your partner to disrespect you? What kind of low value man are you?
Anyway, get the paternity, and coparent if it’s yours. Easy no brainer
While pregnant? Bro I’m out, and getting DNA tests. And getting custody
Give her a third chance
Don’t sign the birth certificate
Paternity test is your first step.
Everything else comes after.
?Is this a serious question?
Use logic brain. Request a paternity test, this can be done before the birth. If it is yours, be a man about it, but that doesn’t mean you have to have any kind of relationship with the mother. Sorry you’re going through this.
You sure that’s even your kid in there?
OP, the only thing you she could have done to make this a worse situation is if the two she cheated with were your twin brother and father, at the same time.
Run
Get a DNA test, then a new gf.
Ex-girlfriend*, and paternity test.