My gf just told me she’s pregnant

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We’ve been together 4 years I’m scared and excited same time. We tried for a time after 2.5 years but now this happens after not really trying. She told me to use the ring money on a baby shower and maternity shoot.

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  1. Lucasbasques Avatar

    Congratulations

  2. Foreign-Onion-3112 Avatar

    Wonderful. You have a terrifying and beautiful life ahead of you – but get a paternity test ❤️

    (Without her knowing, obviously)

  3. C1sko Avatar

    Congratulations.

  4. celticFcNo1 Avatar

    Excellent news. Congratulations. Kids are brilliant and bring constant joy with them. Lots of play and laughs to come

  5. InsideOutRat Avatar

    Congrats! My 2nd is due in a couple weeks. I have loved every minute of being a father.

  6. traehuh Avatar

    Hey brother, I’m currently in the maternity ward, bc my wife’s water broke 30 MIN AGO.

    It’s gonna be a wild, beautiful ride.

    Welcome to this amazing journey.

  7. mindless2831 Avatar

    Whoop whoop! Scream it from the rooftops!

  8. Lovelyone123- Avatar

    Love this congratulations.

  9. LaLechuzaVerde Avatar

    So, this was semi-intentional?

    Do you understand that you have just cemented yourself to this woman for life?

    You can divorce a spouse, but you can’t really ever fully separate from a co-parent.

    If you’re not ready to be married, you aren’t ready to parent a child together.

    You two need to have a serious talk.

    Downvote me all you want, Reddit. I’m just done watching people act like it’s ok to intentionally bring kids into the world with parents that suck to much to marry.

  10. Leneord1 Avatar

    Congrats dude! NGL id say y’all should have a courthouse wedding, simple reception and spend the rest of the money on the kids future

  11. kazewawa_ Avatar

    Congrats! She’s amazing to look beyond the ring and try hard to build a family with you.

    Think you found a keeper 😉 Good luck on your journey ahead!

  12. DildoFappings Avatar

    How do you feel about this, OP?

  13. Existing-Candy-1759 Avatar

    Congrats! It’s the most tiring but rewarding thing in the world raising children, best of luck!

  14. KMWAuntof6 Avatar

    Congratulations!

  15. augusttwentieth Avatar

    Do something simple for her baby shower, and buy her a simple ring. In the future, upgrade her ring. Give her the best of both worlds, and just remember: you’ve got this!

  16. dasroach0 Avatar

    My guy when I got the call she was pregnant I was sitting in my boxers gaming with the boys at 7 am after an all night gaming session I had chip dust all over my bong on my left and I tell you that moment I was shitting myself looking at my surroundings scared shitless. Today we had my seconds 5th birthday. Buddy welcome to the ride. Like I tell my girls you can only be brave when you’re scared. You got this.

  17. Jaded-Supermarket-28 Avatar

    Mine turns three in May. Congrats! Gonna be a wild ride.

  18. FJBP95 Avatar

    Congratulations! Now, start saving up ASAP!

  19. ahavemeyer Avatar

    I had a one-night stand with someone, and she told me she was pregnant, and that I could be as much a part of the child’s life as I wanted to. I went basically insane for a few months, but eventually decided that I would be the child’s father.

    Best thing I’ve ever done. Having that kid in my life has quite possibly saved mine. Life is much much better having him in it.

  20. RiggyRage3 Avatar

    Congratulations King 👑

  21. TryLow1073 Avatar

    Have three. One is currently unleashing his battle cry while shooting me with suction cup arrows from a toy bow. I recommend getting in shape ASAP or they will end you 🤣. Lots of great fun ahead. The good outweighs everything else

  22. ClassIntelligent5251 Avatar

    omg!! congratulations op!