I went to go sit in a chair, my gfs bag was on the chair and I put it near the dresser and she threw me off the chair and scratched me on my neck and my arm
My gf says her actions are justified
r/Advice
I went to go sit in a chair, my gfs bag was on the chair and I put it near the dresser and she threw me off the chair and scratched me on my neck and my arm
Comments
you need to talk to her, this problem has to be solved
That’s physical abuse on top of being too immature to communicate. Never stay with someone who hurts you.
I’m glad she didn’t overreact
Jokes aside, that’s not normal. 100% is not justifiable, and it’s not your fault
Justified to her but if you truly only moved her bag and didn’t say anything or do anything against her then no they are not justified. Thats wild. Im so sorry she did that. It’s not okay for her to hurt you. It doesn’t really matter what you did if her gut reaction is aggressive like that then you should tell her that’s unacceptable and maybe you both can get a mediator (neutral friend or family) to help you guys talk about triggers etc.
No, her actions were NOT justified. That’s abuse. You should have a serious talk with her and consider whether or not you want to be in a relationship like that.
Your girlfriend is abusive and unhinged. Please, leave this situation. Nothing about this is normal, and the fact that she thinks it’s justified is probably the sickest part of it all.
wheres the context
You should call the police and have her arrested for assault. Whatever feelings you have for her she clearly doesn’t feel the same. That’s psychotic behavior
you should run as far from her as you can my guy lol
Nope, not justified, not ok, not legal even. That is straight up abuse. Leave her and block her.
Funny way to say your ex assaulted you.
No. She’s not justified at all. That’s violence, and is only excusable in self defence or barring the unlikely event she literally had no control of herself (like delerium, asleep when it happened, seizure etc).
If she’s not a cat, then you need to dump her.
I thought this was one of those unexpected jokes where you reveal the “girlfriend” is a cat
This will only escalate.
Please leave her.
You need to end this relationship!
That’s beyond disturbing. Grounds for instant dismissal.
In that case your actions – splitting up and wanting nothing more to do with her – are also justified.
Never accept physical violence in a relationship.
Dude. What?
That is domestic violence. It is only going to get worse, you need to call the police.
No, her actions are not justified whatsoever. What she did was disrespect you and that’s called abuse. Personally you just break up with somebody like that.
Why did she leave the kitchen in the first place?
Only my two cents. If you are posting something like this on here, then you already know this isn’t justified and so should she.
Physical violence is never justified. There is obvious a lack of maturity in this case. While I do not know the demographics here, I would imagine, this is not going to be the last situation you are in.
I’d have filed charges. Your girlfriend sounds like an abusive narcissistic sociopath.
In all seriousness, take a picture of the scratch and journal the events of what happened today in a note book. We all know you’re not gonna do anything about it now but if it happens again just document it for when you’re ready to do something about it. Like get police involved, restraining order, abortion talks.