My gf(19f) wont tell his ex bf (20m) that Im (20m) dating her now. Should I confront her?

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My gf(19f) wont tell his ex(20m) that Im(20m) dating her. Should I confront her?

My gf and his ex remained friends after the relationship ended and they haven’t talk in months. Before we started dating she kept telling him that things were over and he was insisting over months to date again, trying to convincing her, etc…

Now that we are dating he is texting some friends of my hers hinting that he misses her. I told her that maybe he needs to tell him that now we are dating so he takes it as closure to move on, but she said that would hurt him and will wait, but I dont know what is she waiting for to be honest.

Should I confront her about this? Maybe tell her that I dont feel comfortable with her being so “passive” about it?

TLDR: gf wont tell his ex that we are dating because it will hurt him

Comments

  1. Analisandopessoas Avatar

    I would end this relationship. I would block everything and not look back. You are plan B.

  2. RocinanteOPA Avatar

    Why do you have to confront her? Why wouldn’t you just talk to her about it?