My gf(F21) and I(M20) work together, 5 days a week. We been together for over a year. After work we go to the gym together, we do our separate workouts in different spaces. Then after that we go home then ft each other until we go to bed.
Sometimes during the week we don’t ft after the gym. We get Mondays, and Saturdays off together. Sometimes we hang out on Mondays. A few months ago we set Saturdays to be our day.
I been going to Church and my sister and I met a few people, so come to find out they are available to hang out on Saturdays night.
And I always wanted a group to hang out with. So not every Saturday but we like to go out and my gf is now upset with me. I didn’t see a problem because I plan to spend 6 hours with her and 4 hours with them.
I always invite her to come with us but she doesn’t want to stay out late(no problem with that) she gives me shit for it and then she says that I don’t make time for her. It’s not the first time that we had this conversation.
I love her a lot but it feels like we are not compatible, like we are the opposites when it comes to everything. I like outdoors, she doesn’t. There’s a lot of more stuff that I still wanna do. I feel like me adding on extra ppl in life wouldn’t be the last.
We been trying to make the relationship work. We came to an understanding last night but I feel like this won’t be the last. I love her very much and trying to balance everything. TL;DR