My girlfriend told me how she wants to stop doing sexual things because that’s all she’s been thinking about. She said that most of the time she talks to me is because she wants to get her freak on and all thats on her mind is her getting her private part eaten again by me. (which I first did about little over a month ago and never again). She said she knows thats not the only reason she talks to me but its most of it, and if it keeps going on like this shes worried it might become one of her main reasons.
She doesn’t think this is good and also wants to stop but it’s hard because I’m down all the time for stuff like this so I make it harder.
I think she might just be pent up, personally I don’t think this is a bad thing and that I just need to eat her out again. But then again I’m young and dumb so I’m questioning: how I should take on this situation?
Please let me know your thoughts guys!
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Respect what she wants.
Sounds like a fun girl to me my dude! Don’t end it, make a commitment to providing her with all the sex she requires. That you’re happy to be used for your sexual skills, you’re proud. Hopefully she laughs and agrees to continuing to allow you to be her sex slave. Over time you might find your desire more of a verbal connection or the ability to support each other through tough things increases. But then again, you might find her desire to engage with you like this has increased. She loves your sex so much, maybe eventually she’ll admit she adores the man behind the tongue
Bottom line is this is her choice. If you don’t respect her decision you don’t respect her.
You respect her wishes. Sounds like she doesn’t want sex to be the only thing between you two, that’s nice right? Maybe you should plan some dates out of the house and in public.
Why didn’t you give her oral regularly? Sounds like she cant get what she wants from you so she needs to stop.
You should be eating her out multiple times a day, unless you have an issue with it in which case you two are not sexually compatible
Get married and have kids.
What dose that even mean. She’s continuously wet.
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When you go to a secluded place again, dont make her feel like she has to. Remind her opportunity doesnt dictate the need too. Iet her know you like to but don’t need to.