Hi everyone, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now and we care about each other a lot. She has a close group of friends and more recently has wanted to stick to that group. I think that’s fine and I have a close knit group of friends as well. I’ve always been fairly introverted and recently l’ve found myself wanting to be more outgoing and meet new people. Last year there was a party that I was invited to. I didn’t realize it would be a pool party so I showed up with a group of my guy friends and we all had a good time. I understand how it could’ve been a bad look considering l’m in a relationship but we talked it through after and she said she really wasn’t that upset. This year the same party is happening and l’ve been begging for her to come. She hinted at wanting to do something with me. So l said we should go to the party together. It was really fun last year and we met a lot of cool people but she said she’d rather stay home. All of that would be fine and she said she can’t make me not go but I feel bad about it. What should I do?
TL:DR I got invited to a party my girlfriend doesn’t want to go to when I invited her. She seems upset that I want to go