Most weekend tend to be spent with my girlfriend unless one of us has plans to see a friend. We usually either go for a day out, go into town, got for a meal or drinks etc.
I’ve had a busy few weeks with work recently and through if use this weekend to just relax at home. I planned to spend it reading, playing video games and watching Netflix. I told my gf this and she asked if I meant all weekend.
I told her yeah I did and she said I’m wasting the weekend. I said it’s no wasted if it’s what I want to do, I mentioned that she doesn’t have to stay in and she’s free to go out if she wants but I’d be staying I , she said I should want to spend time with her.
I pointed out most of my free time is spent with her but tvat dosng mean I don’t have time for myself, she said she’s seeing a friend in two weeks so I could always relax then.
I told her I was getting burnt out now so I don’t want to wait two weeks, I said I shouldn’t have to wait until she’s busy to be able to have some time to myself.
She just said I should be open to making some plans instead of wasting the full weekend but I refused.
Does anyone have advice on how to handle this situation or have any other views on it?
Tl;dr my girlfriend said I was wasting by weekend when I planned to spend it at home relaxing, she said I should be open to make plans with her and relax in two weeks when she’s seeing her friend.