I had an accident and needed a procedure and was admitted in the hospital for a few days. But it exposed the dirty side of my gf to the point that she disgusts me now.
What I didn’t expect was how my girlfriend behaved the whole time. She insisted on only visiting me during the exact hour the doctor usually came around. She’d tell me not to talk much to him because I “needed rest,” and said she’d deal with the nurse or doctor instead. Outside of those moments, she barely checked in no calls, barely any texts, just “I spoke with the nurse, I’ll come when the doctor’s there.”
Then one morning, the doctor told me himself that I should ask her to tone it down because she had been texting him until late at night. That was humiliating to hear. When I asked her about it, she brushed it off, saying she was “just worried.”
Even after I came home, she kept trying to “update” the doctor on my health and didn’t want me to contact him directly. She even got angry when I tried calling the clinic myself.
The part that really hurt was when I found out from her sister that she had a crush on him the whole time. She had been making jokes about how “hot” he was, how she fantasized about him, and how she was “crushing” on him while I was stuck in a hospital bed.
I can’t shake the feeling of betrayal. I was vulnerable, in pain, and relying on her for support and instead she was busy flirting with and fantasizing about my doctor. She was physically there, but it doesn’t feel like she was really there for me. It has sunk my heart.
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Your relationship is over buddy, sorry to say
Just broke up with her.when someone has a relationship and going flirting another woman or men that human is disqusting human in the world.
You deserve better
Your gf has been embarrassing herself very openly and unashamedly. How in the world did she get his private phone number anyway? …surgeons don’t give that out..they have a call service that notifies them first.
Anyway, a decent looking doctor will always get unwanted flirts from women, it is the norm. This guy is probably pretty sick of this kind of over the top, overt schools-girl type behavior . GF needs to grow up.
and you’re gonna let her do what she wants to you? do you enjoy being mentally bullied by someone you love? what if you did that to her, would she stay?
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It is a betrayal and I sounds like she’s stalking your doctor. I think you should move on.
I have a friend who is an ER Physician and he runs into that all the time …. His wife works at another hospital down the road …. I remember some of the stories he shares when I’m over watching TV ….
Sorry to say but it’s over…. time to move on
How’d she get the doctors number??
Nah that’s fucked. Be gone with her.
Why did the doctor give out a number that he could be texted on late into the night?
Belongs to the streets
Tell her bye bye. I’m sure the doctor has no interest in her.
I’m sorry man. This one hurt me to read. She’s not ready for a commitment bro. She may never be. I’ve recently learned that this is pretty common with women, even the married ones. A lot of them are very good at it, just as men are, except I feel like I’m the only one who didn’t know.
Gross.
Most bots write better than this, so I’m assuming this is a creative writing exercise. Please do more research next time about how doctors deal with these situations.
Doctors dont give out their personal phone numbers.
What a crappy person to have by your side when you need her the most. Sorry
Whoa, that’s low. Im so sorry, man. I hate to say this but she does that while your in the hospital. The magic is over.
To the comments that say physicians do not give out personal phone numbers: this is untrue. Some physicians do in fact give out their personal numbers to their patients if they have any urgent or general questions. This isn’t necessarily the majority though.
I find this story disturbing especially because I have also known a person like this who I theorized and dreamt that she would one day absolutely do it if I were ever hospitalised (based on my reading of her personality) and hence did not take the relationship any further. She is a suspect case of HPD with co-morbidity of BPD in my opinion …
that would crush me too. u were in one of the weakest points in life and instead of caring for u, she’s chasing the doc. shows her priorities real clear
End the relationship. You deserve better.
dodged a bullet mate, luckily you found out her true nature before having kids / being married
win is a win
How did she get the doctor’s cell number to text him? 🤔
Broh this girl is not the one for you; you should have a very serious conversation with her, and then leave her; trust me, it’s gonna be the best decision you can make; you were in your most vulnerable moment!! And look what she did; and if it’s for her, you would never even know; man, talk serious with her and leave.