ok so my (20) girlfriends 20) ex/friend sends her quite a bit of money he’s almost sent her 500 in the last few months, we have arguments about this and i don’t know what to think, she ask for money when she needs it for food or to smoke or something else, my problem is not that she has a helpful friend my problem is that she has gotten almost 2k from this guy with no job no intent on paying him back nothing, she’ll ask me whilst im trying to save so ill just say no and then she’ll just go ask him, why does this make me feel like a cuck
my girlfriend gets money from her friend
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it’s about control. she’s leaning on someone else for stability, undermining your role in her life. it’s not just about money, it’s a pattern of emotional dependency.
also forgot to add they dont really talk she just request for money and he gives it
Your bank account might be her second option, but you shouldn’t make her your first.
“why does this make me feel like a cuc”
Because that’s what you are letting yourself be.
Mate honestly just get rid of her. Not only is she by sounds of things constantly asking you for money which is a huge red flag because at 20 you should be at least earning some money yourself. But when you say no she goes to an ex for it! Don’t care if that ex is a friend, a ex is an ex. My brother have some self respect and ditch her
Leave that girl bro
So would the guy giving her money be a simp?
You know what you gotta do. Leave her and level up.
She is double dipping . So is he …
And a simp. Don’t forget simp.
she definitely giving him head for money
Women will always be interested in money and will “gravitate” towards men who provide as such.
You either need to be offering more than him (and tell her it’s either him or me, no double dipping) or leave her (let her be with the sugar daddy).
Yes, you should feel like a cuck.
At least they aren’t insisting that you blow the dude for cigarette money.
I’m pretty sure she’s paying him in one way or another
you sure she not working for that money and servicing the sugar daddy? I find it hard to believe a guy is giving your gf money for nothing.
If someone is a leech then they have no limits in taking.
A giver is the kind of person to date, not a taker.
She is using her friend and maybe her friend is a little disabled or naive, or if it’s a dude then ….
your girlfriend sounds like a loser deadbeat. time to move on.
Leave. She will replace you in less than 24 hours.
Bro that’s absolutely insane, you let that bxtch convince you that her ex was her friend?😂 And now she’s asking him for money and actually getting it? That’s his girlfriend bro, you’re just keeping her busy for the time being. Save yourself and make that bxtch walk the plank😂😂
brooooo. leave that shit. what you have is a hoe captured in temporary orbit.
Dude cut ties
Sounds like “your” girl is not yours. It was your turn and now she’s going back to him slowly but surely. Leave her, and grow a spine bro. No man/woman is worth this trouble. You’re also young.. so life keeps moving.
She sounds like an incredible leech
You think he’s sending her money and getting nothing in return? lol cmon man…
Nothing is free bro.
Is friend a euphemism?
She is for the streets homie, go find someone better than that.
First of all, she should have a job or you should be reconsidering things