My girlfriend (22/F) just fell out with all of her friends because of their disrespectful behavior on a group trip with me and my friend. For context, I am Black (22/F) and my friend is South Asian and Muslim (22/F). During this trip, my girlfriend’s best friends were ignoring us and being extremely rude. One of her friends was the designated driver, and she decided not to bring me nor my friend to a museum and we both had to walk to get to our destinations.
At the end of the trip, I confronted my girlfriend’s two friends and because of that, they shunned her from them. Now, my girlfriend is trying to make gcs and stuff with my friend and I don’t know how to feel about that. Because I am starting to believe she is only doing this to fill in the gaps left by her horrible friends. What could I do to bring this up without sounding jealous or possessive?
TL;DR: my girlfriend can be extremely sensitive and I understand that these were her close friends. But I do think this is genuinely her suffering from loneliness and I don’t know how to tell her that without sounding insensitive.
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she just wants to be social, she probably feels lonely. why would u feel weird about her wanting to be friends with your friends??? if u want this girl to be your life partner then um yeah sorry to say but your friend groups will/should include her and vice versa.