I (27M) and my girlfriend (30F) have been together for about 5 months now. I started watching porn ever since I was 14. When I met my girlfriend after a couple of dates with her I told her that I watch porn (but I did not specify what type of porn that I like to watch) and she said she was okay with it because she said she watches gay porn. But Yesterday I invited my girlfriend over to my place and I decided it would be a good idea to watch porn together since we both like watching porn. So I asked if she would like to watch porn with me and she said she would love to. but once she found out about the type of porn I like to watch she got really mad and start talking to me in spanish saying “¿Por qué ves principalmente porno japonés y hentai? ¿No te parecen atractivas las latinas?” I responded back to her in spanish telling her just because I like to watch JAV and hentai that doesn’t mean that I’m going to prefer Asian women over her. Because when it comes to dating I only prefer to date Latinas because not only are latinas very attractive. As a Latino myself it’s also alot easier for me to get along with them since we both share the same culture, and the same language.
She did not like that response so she broke up with me. Should I try talking it out with her or should I just move on?
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Dude she got insecure about something you weren’t trying to make personal and instead of having a convo, she bounced. That’s her choice. But the whole thing about her watching gay porn is fine, but you watching hentai somehow means you don’t like latinas is just projection.
If she’s gonna dip over what you watch alone in your free time, after 5 months, you dodged a longer messier headache. Don’t beg. Don’t chase. Let it be. Move on.
Find someone who likes what you do. I don’t think she will get over this if she reacted in such a way.
Leave her gang don’t be playing no games out here with these females
She’ll come out in a year don’t bother
her logic is so flawed considering her own preference… she already made up her mind and it’s to be hypocritical. no point in chasing after a relationship with someone like that
If it was some issue with violence or abuse, that would be one thing, but if she is accusing you of only liking Asians because you watch Japanese animated porn, seems like her breaking up with you saved you some trouble.
She sounds mentally unstable. Based on how easily she got upset you probably dodged a huge bullet there.
Definitely move on. It’s time, obviously the two of you are not going to be on the same page.
But if she’s made it clear she’s not open to talking or forgiving, then respect that boundary and move on. A partner who can’t communicate through a disagreement probably isn’t someone you can build with long term
lol the way she mixed up watching hentai and prefers Asian women is just insane, she is just insecurity walking on 4 wheels