My girlfriends mom saw me naked – now my girlfriend won’t talk to me.
I (27f) and my girlfriend (28f) have been together for 3 years.
Every Saturday my girlfriend and her mom go out in the morning. Usually to get coffee, shop, farmers market, etc. This is something they have done for years and I love it for them, and allows me time to just chill and be at home.
Yesterday they went out at about 8am. I was still in bed. Later on about 10am I started my day, made myself my coffee and was lounging around in the living room. My girlfriend and her mom came up and walked right into the apartment. I was naked, which we both are always naked at home. (Her mom does not know this.) Never in 3 years has her mom come up after hanging out on a Saturday. When they came into the room I had gotten up to excuse myself and her mom came and gave me a hug. After I went to put clothes on and we chatted all for a bit.
When her mom left, my girlfriend got extremely angry with me about what had happened and wanted to push blame on me for what had happened. I never received any calls or texts about them coming back here together. Zero notice. . This is no different than any other day or time in our apartment.Her mom didn’t seem overly concerned or weird about the situation, she was actually quite normal and nothing was different.
I don’t think she cared We have barely spoken since and I’m truly at a loss on what to do and how to handle this situation any further. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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You didn’t do anything wrong it’s your home and you had no heads-up. Sounds like a miscommunication more than anything. Hopefully your girlfriend cools down and you two can talk it out calmly.
You were in your own home, doing what you always do no one told you they were coming back. It’s fair for her to feel awkward, but blaming you isn’t right. Give her space, then talk it through calmly
Is she 18? She’s acting immature. I’d leave her alone and come back when she wants to. If my mil seen that I’m sure I’m not the only guy she’s ever seen without clothes. She’ll get over it
I didn’t mean to make things weird I had no you two were coming back. Let’s talk when you’re ready
Naked at home no biggie.
My biggest take away is starting your day at 10am. I’m so envious. My kids and I have lived 3 lives by 10am. Soo jealous
She gave you a hug whilst naked? Your girlfriends mum?
You didn’t do anything wrong. You were in your own home. That’s the place where you can be indecent and not lock the door to get dressed. The fact that your girlfriend just brought in someone else with zero warning, then blamed you for it and now basically fives you the silent treatment which is actually considered emotional abuse? Very telling of her character. I’m not saying break up because I don’t know if this is out of character for her, but if it isn’t then I would suggest you do take a long hard look at the relationship and how she behaves and treats you.
Your gf has issues she needs to work out. Not your problem.
You were not/ are not wrong.
Your home. Your choice of clutches or not.
It’s just one of those things.
Awkward yes. But it’s over.
Your gf should recognize her feelings of secondary embarrassment and move on.
If anything she should apologize to you for misplacing her anger.
It’s just a weird one off thing that will be a funny story in 10 years
It is your home but…this is why people don’t hang out naked in living spaces.
personally it seems forced, like “I’m gonna do whatever I want!”. Who wants ass sweat going directly onto a couch for hours day after day? its why we wear underwear and wash it regularly.
I know the rest of the comments are validating you but this whole thing could be solved by getting some comfy lounging clothes.
It’s ur GF fault for not informing in advanced that her mom coming with her.
It just that she can’t accept that she forgot to inform u, but as they said, women are always right.
Can I stop by for a hug ? I promise I’ll talk to and call you 🤷