Like I just go to my job, gym and then play video games like every night. It’s so unbelievably boring. It was cool when I was 18 but now at 22 I’m getting tired of it.
Women show no interest so the idea of a family is out the window and I have only a few friends who never want to do anything in person so most of the time I’m just by myself in my room.
What do I do in this situation?
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Explore new hobbies, socialize with coworkers and neigbours; find ways to meet new people; fitmess goals? Financial goals?
Travel
Go to do some local activities arount in your area, meet new people.
Take up a hobby that requires you to leave your dungeon.
I was in a similar position and ended up deciding to travel the country by living in my car and doordashing. It’s been great and is a way I can learn how to become a functioning adult while also doing things I love and that feel worth it. Ultimately, I think you should investigate what beliefs are causing you to feel like things have gotten boring (not saying they haven’t, but look to the cause of why it feels this way now).
Hobbies will bring your passions out and attract people. Volunteering looks good on your CV but you will also meet different people and that can only be enriching… Sometimes you need to leave your comfort zone which is the hardest part
I feel jealous about you. I can understand you are going through hard time but for me that’s a perfect life. Can we swap life? So many things are happening in my day to day life. My friends are always wishing and trying to meet up. I’m the one wishing for me time.
Let’s swap life…..
Ive really been getting into ordering books recently. I live in a part of Ohio with decent quarries and forests. So some decent land to see. I like finding fests and museums. Today my kids saw the ohio caverns. Usually I take something im interested in and start researching hardcore. Like ive never been fishing but im gonna slowly gather the things and go next year. Other than that im always motivated to go to AA and NA. That has helped along with therapy tremendously.