I don’t feel bad for her at all. My mom knew he had a wife and continued seeing him. They’re married now and very unhappy. He missed the birth of his child to be with my mom, which she KNOWS, and still continued seeing him.
She took care of him for months & then he got a job & convinced my mom to be a SAHM, which he doesn’t even make enough for her to be one. He only makes about $800 weekly. Bills take that all, my mom quit her job for absolutely nothing.
Her and my step dad are now married, and he’s the worst. He has cheated on my mom twice. Recently, he brought his child’s mother to a family memorial we had and completely let her disrespect my mom. In the past, she has busted my mom windows because she was having an affair with her husband.
I do not feel bad for my mom at all. She chose that man over her children, & deserves everything that happens to her.
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Love this for them both.
To add: Him and my mom are so toxic. They got into an argument and they share a change jar. He wanted to take $2 from the change jar, got mad at my mom, and dumped the entire thing on the floor, which they have over $100 in the jar.
She didn’t pick it up, nope. She made one of us do it and just sat there arguing with him on the phone. I genuinely hate this “home” & can’t wait to move out. But I’m only 18, and she won’t allow me to get a job. I don’t have a plan for now, but I’ll make it out.
She absofuckinglutly deserves it
Your mom made her choices knowing the harm they could cause, and now the consequences are unfolding. It’s not your job to carry guilt or sympathy for decisions she prioritized over you.
I’m so sorry you’re living in that chaos! But proud of you for knowing what consequences look like, that’s what she’s experiencing now. And continue to experience until she becomes accountable for her choices.
Get a job, save up, and get your own little place where you can have peace. ❤️