Location: California
My parents saved up a little over $3,000 in cash so my mom could get an implant procedure. Before the appointment, she counted the cash, and my mom brought the full amount to the dental office. She was told she could either: pay $3,000 upfront OR pay in installments ($1,500 now and $1,600 later), totaling $3,100. The $3,000 was meant to cover the entire implant procedure, which was to be completed over two appointments.
Since she had the full amount saved, she handed over the $3,000 at the front desk before the procedure began. The receptionist counted the cash in three stacks. My mom then immediately went in for the procedure. No receipt was given at the time, which she found a bit unusual, but didn’t question, since she’s been a patient there for 10+ years and has never had issues.
After the procedure, she was handed a handwritten receipt and a printed statement showing her previous payments and current balance. She didn’t check it at the time, since she was disoriented, and again, no issues with payment ever (she regrets this not doing this and learned her lesson btw).
Weeks later, she finally looked over everything while cleaning up her paper and bills and realized that the receipt only shows $1,500 paid and the statement says she still owes $1,600
This doesn’t make sense though. She handed over $3,000 in cash that day, not $1,500. She counted this stack at the house and upon arriving at the office.
We contacted the dentist (who owns the practice) to ask if there might’ve been a mistake. Instead of investigating, he was extremely defensive:
- Said it’s impossible for them to make a mistake
- Mentioned he made $1,700 cash that day and spent it all on dinner and wine with his family
- Told a story about once returning $800 he found at the bank
- Said his staff are all single moms with decent salary, very honest, and one even tried to return a $20 overpayment
- Insisted we were “accusing them of theft,” even though we only asked about the discrepancy
We also asked if there were security cameras that could be reviewed. He said there are no cameras. The entire procedure was paid out of pocket in cash, no insurance and no digital record on our end.
We can’t prove the $3,000 was paid unfortunately. But the remaining $1,500 isn’t here at our home. It’s just “disappeared” on our end. They claim only $1,500 was received.
But from our side, we know exactly what my mom handed over. My parents are older and saved this money carefully. I can’t help but feel they’ve been taken advantage of. I don’t know what to do next. Has anyone else been in a situation like this? What are our options?
Edit to clarify: The $3,000 was meant to cover the entire implant procedure, which was to be completed over two appointments. The understanding, based on what was told to my mom, was that if she paid in full ($3,000), it would cover both visits. But now, because the receipt only reflects $1,500, the office is claiming she still owes $1,600. So when she goes in for her next follow-up appointment, they’ll treat it like she hasn’t fully paid, even though she already handed over the full $3,000 to cover both sessions.
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Is there a camera in the reception area?
You didnt notice til weeks later.
Use their same tactics. “We gave you all 3k and we don’t know what you did with the money.” After all the receipt is handwritten.
NAL
I’d be very surprised if there was no camera
I handle big amounts of cash several times a year. Together with other workers.
I don’t really have legal advice. But I can tell from experience that mistakes happen on both sides. Payer and payee. It is usually just wrongly bundled, the denominations are wrong. A bundle was forgotten, it is still stuck inside something etc. We think we remember correct but we are wrong.
Did your mom go to the bank to get the money? How did she save the cash? From what activity? Work? Tips? Maybe you can retrace your steps that way.
Maybe the dentist will eventually see they were overpaid if the mistake happened on their end. Good luck!
Surely if paying in 2 instalments incurred an additional $100 charge then some paperwork would have to have been signed as you’re effectively setting up a credit agreement for the remaining $1,500 to be paid at a later date and being charged $100 for the privilege.
So you simply need to ask for the signed paperwork where your mother agreed to the split payment option and signed the credit agreement. If they cannot provide this, it never happened.
The person at the front desk stole the money.
The dentist will have done a cash count at the end of the day. Several people will have to lie for the dentist to win his case. You will have evidence at least of how you got the $3,000. I would take this to the licensing board and others. It will cost the dentist more than $1,500 to save his reputation.
Organize enough proof as you can (are there withdrawl receipts? did they save this in a shoebox), get organized, and then threaten to go public or litigate if they do not move forward. (But I might ask for the second half back — this person is going to be mucking around in her mouth.)
That said, this was fucking stupid and you may have to pay the stupid tax. Get a receipt as you hand over the money.