My moms boyfriend molested me

I won’t give an age for my own reasons but will say it occurred when I was younger. Having done years of therapy I realized it came about as a result of my relationship with my father who despite being in my life was as absent as one can be. I just wanted to feel loved and I thought my mom’s boyfriend did. I suppose he did in his own way. It made me completely turned off to any guy for a few years when I left home. After being better through therapy I immediately found my husband. The issue is now I find myself back in therapy feeling like I missed out as I went from my moms bf, to turned off from all men, to my husband.