My mother attempted to murder me multiple times growing up AMA

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Growing up, she was very abusive towards me (F27), mainly due to the voices she was hearing. She suffers with multiple mental health issues (hearing voices, delusions).

She is currently serving prison time for attempted murder on someone else.

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  1. strawberrygirlnia Avatar

    Are you still in contact with her? and do you hold any resentment towards her?

  2. nicol_turren Avatar

    What effect has it had on you? Do you have trust issues now?

  3. atlhost Avatar

    How/what method did she use to try to kill you?

  4. IcyPie6377 Avatar

    Has your mother been diagnosed with any mental illnesses, as it sounds like she is clearly suffering from some, If so, has she been medicated, and has that made a difference to her behaviour and personality?

    What you went through sounds awful, and I hope you are able to find some peace.

  5. paperplanes2241 Avatar

    How does your sister deal/cope? Does she have less PTSD from being younger and maybe not remembering the same as you or does she also have other mental health diagnoses?

  6. Memeicity Avatar

    First I wanna say I’m sorry that all of that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better.

    But for my question I have a few.

    1. What was the closest she’s gotten?

    2. Have you ever tried fighting her back.

    3. What is your relationship like with your other family?

  7. JamesHowlettReborn Avatar

    Did you have a father figure around?

  8. focushealing Avatar

    Did you ever consider killing her in advance? 

  9. Fragrant-Attorney-73 Avatar

    Do you worry for any genetic aspect in the mental health or concern likening yourself to her?

  10. acarso12 Avatar

    Sorry for what you went through. My aunt was schizophrenic and I feel so bad for how my cousin was raised. Her father also left at a young age.

    Was your mom going through this since you were born? Did you grow up thinking it was normal or did you always know she was mentally ill?

  11. Party-Management3370 Avatar

    I’m sorry you had to go through all of that will your mother. Does your experience make you shy away from/gravitate towards violent or mental health related content in things like movies or video games?

    Also, what is your favorite thing to put on toast?

  12. Tiny-Seaworthiness85 Avatar

    I would have been in prison as well. Do to my mental health issue

  13. Cookie_Kuchisabishii Avatar

    Did she not plead reduced responsibility or whatever it’s called? I would have expected that due to her mental health issues she would have been institutionalised than jailed, but I don’t know anything about the US legal system