Im 26f and im at a family reunion that lasts until wensday. i have a nephew who is 14 and last night i woke up to him forcing himself on me. i was too shocked and scared to fight back and now i feel disgusted with myself. I wont be belived if i tell my family as they didnt belive me when an ex raped me before and my nephew in their eyes is a great kid.
what the fuck do i do?!?!?
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The will believe you if you contact the police about it.
You need to go to the police. Regardless of what the rest of the family thinks of him, what he did was a crime and he needs to be held accountable for his actions.
If that kid tells someone before you, and your DNA is on him, it’s not going to look good.
I’m not a lawyer, this isn’t legal advice, I’m just a chronically ill Redditor; but I’d contact a lawyer right away. Like now. Then take whatever advice they give you, because I’m pretty sure you’re going to need a rape kit from the hospital like now, preferably before you shower, and they are going to involve the police. I would strongly advise against telling the parents, everything should be done through a lawyer from this point on.
Get a rape kit as evidence and then go to the police
You didn’t do anything wrong. Report to the police. He could do this to others. Stop him now!
police immediately
what the heck??? go to the police now!!! dont feel any pity for what happens next for him thats disgusting
Immediately go to the police and get a rape kit done. You cannot waste any time doing this even though this is stressful and so damn terrible. Once you do that then you can take your time deciding what you want to do next. I think it’s clear and an easy choice that you need to full on get this kid as much punishment through the police as possible, if he’s doing that at 14 you can protect anyone who might be his victim in the future.
Go to the hospital and tell them you want a rape kit and a police officer. Report him for raping you. Never talk to your horrible family again. Get therapy or counseling.
You’ve gotta go to the police and/or hospital and get a tape kit done. If he feels comfortable enough doing that to his aunt at a family reunion there’s no way you will be his only victim. You deserve justice and he needs to be punished and prevented from hurting others.
You gotta go to the police. He needs to be locked up. He will continue this behavior in adulthood.
Please go to the police, if he’s done it once then he will do it again. Don’t be disgusted with yourself. He’s the only one who should feel disgusted. Regardless of how old he is or what your family think you need to get help! Please! You aren’t alone! Don’t get rid of any evidence or get a wash as tempting as it is. Please report him and please take care of yourself! Put yourself first and don’t care what other people think. Care about yourself and no one else! Sending love! X
Go to the police. This is a crime.
What a crazy situation. Notify the cops. You must sleep like a rock to not wake up before it even started. Feel for you.
Don’t shower, go to the hospital to get a rape kit done to use as evidence, and report it to the police.
If you don’t do anything, imagine what he could do to other women. He needs to be reported, and put in his place.
Rape kit asap! Do not shower!!!