My oldest son died by suicide when he was 18. I became suicidal as I continued in my law-enforcement career. Today I run a suicide prevention program. AMA.

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My boy died when he was 18 years old. This year he’s been gone 18 years. I planned to die by suicide myself, and due to a chance intervention, I did not go through with it. Today I run a Military and First Respinder suicide prevention program, but the organization I work for supports anyone who needs help. AMA

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  1. Impossible_Cause1835 Avatar

    You’re an inspiration I🫡 you. Keep on keeping on.

  2. midwestblondenerd Avatar

    No questions, but thank you for what you are doing, sir.

  3. Important_Today8721 Avatar

    Thank you for your strength and service 🙏

  4. vto583 Avatar

    Sorry for your son and you. Thank you for what you’re doing. How do you see the situation now after many years have gone by?

  5. Numerous_Outcome_394 Avatar

    What keeps you going? I struggle to find purpose in my life as it doesn’t feel meaningful most of the time.

  6. Newsies2123 Avatar

    Wow, thank you for what you’re doing. How did you know you wanted to start an organization? How did you start it?

  7. Distinct-Tap-6137 Avatar

    Why should I keep living? I’m worthless.

  8. Incidentalgentleman Avatar

    Sorry for your loss.

    Looking back on things now, are there any warning signs you felt you missed or wished you would have addressed?

  9. AttemptCreative1512 Avatar

    I just went to my first qpr suicide prevention course! Needs to be more popular, how do you suggest i get more people to take the course ?

  10. Ummimmina Avatar

    Thank you. You will lead others to hope and success.

  11. Alarmed_Guitar7171 Avatar

    You’re providing a great service. I am so thankful for folks like you!! A fantastic tribute to your son!!

  12. gunillagarsongoldbrg Avatar

    Thank you for doing this. How are your other children doing? At what point in the last 18 years did you pivot? Regina King just started talking about her experience with this on Marc Maron’s WTF podcast recently, big hugs to all the parents out there who have lost children.