I took home a guy I met at a bar. The next morning we were hanging out chatting and he went to show me something on his phone and out of the corner of his screen I saw what looked like a picture of me sleeping topless. I was shocked and froze and didn’t say anything. A couple days later I confronted him via text message and he admitted to what he did and he sent a screen recording video of him deleting the content EXCEPT it wasn’t a picture of me sleeping. Pictures of me naked, getting changed, having sex with me from behind. This is only what I could see. I’m scared there are more that he saved and deleted from his phone that he didn’t want me to see. Who knows what else he did to me while I slept and filmed….
I feel violated. I am beside myself. I feel like I have no control of my body or those photos and potential videos.
How do I go to the police. How do I navigate this. From what I’m reading this is illegal and charges should be brought against him but I’m scared that won’t happen. I know his full legal name, where he works, cross streets of where he lives, where he’s from, places he frequents.
Location: California
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You can go to the police station and file a report. Or you can call them and file a report. Or, if the agency allows it, file a report online.
I don’t know that there is a crime here, given the circumstances, but if there is, you can ask the police to prosecute it.
Hello l, lawyer here, i will give you an advice regarding this but it is out of the book kindly dm you can file a complaint with a section of bns which will make him pay for what he had done
Yes tell the police you went to the bar to be a whore 😭🤣
Hey you kinda made your own bed here by sleeping with a guy you barely know from the bar. Next time make better decisions.