My parents are both addicts – AMA

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I (26F) grew up much like the TV show shameless except there wasn’t much comedy. I’m the youngest of seven kids…we all turned out relatively normal. Ask me anything!

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  1. Several_Beginning533 Avatar

    How did you all end up

  2. yeetedskurts Avatar

    Why do you think you turned out relatively normal? What helped anchor you?

    What specific drugs did they use?

  3. Entire-Land2726 Avatar

    Did you stay in touch with your parents ? My family are the exact same and I find it hard to be around them

  4. secrettruths Avatar

    What was the age range oldest to youngest?

  5. flyerhell Avatar

    Do you or any of your siblings have drug/alcohol or other addiction issues? Do you guys intentionally avoid it because of your parents?

  6. wombatworking Avatar

    did you still manage to do well in school and get good careers without parental support? what kinda jobs do you guys have now? :))

  7. GretelNoHans Avatar

    Did your mum used while pregnant? I’ve heard that can really impact the child either intelligence or way to regulate their emotions.

  8. Sockanator Avatar

    Have your parents gotten clean? or are they still addicted? Do you think they will understand the damage they have done?

  9. Jordan_the_Hutt Avatar

    Have you noticed that often the worst most out of touch people have amazing parents?

    My parents were similar to yours (although from the sound of it not as bad) and most of my best friends and favorite people also had difficult parents.

    Everytime I met some out of touch, know it all, boot lickers parents they were so nice and cool. I think it’s the struggle at a young age that gives some people insight and compassion.

  10. Snailsnik Avatar

    Were all siblings raised together to adulthood, or were there situations of being split up and placed in foster care and/or raised by family members?

  11. JamesHowlettReborn Avatar

    Everyone avoided drugs? That’s wild. Have you ever been curious?

  12. halfnormal_ Avatar

    Did your parents work when you were growing up? What did they do?

  13. No_Equivalent_7866 Avatar

    Did your parents’ addiction impact your childhood negatively?

  14. Commercial_Common_32 Avatar

    Were your parents also physically or emotionally abusive to their children?

  15. withoutatres78 Avatar

    I’m so proud of you!!!!!!

  16. OnlyAChapter Avatar

    That’s the thing I don’t really get with addict couple. Like, why don’t they use protection? And why do they have so many children in all of it?? Like wtf

  17. Disastrous-Gate-6590 Avatar

    Why did your parents have so many kids? Government financial support for more drugs? Is that how it works in families like yours?