Embarrassing I know, I met this guy on a video game. Everything seemed to be going well, we would talk and call everyday for hours on end. We soon noticed that both of us lived in Arizona. We planned to hang out, he was about an hour drive away and this week he drove to me twice. The two times we hung out turned into sexual things which im really starting to feel horrible about now that today I caught him talking to another girl calling her gorgeous and following her on insta. I don’t know what to do anymore. I gave him my everything, even my first time. Ive been crying all morning and now he wont even answer my messages. I texted him when I found out and asked “ do you even really want me? “ and all he said was “ I really dont know yet. “ Do I just give up.
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Yes, you give up.
Just an fyi: no well meaning 25 year old wants to date a 19 year old. He specifically went to visit you because he figured it would be easy to have sex and that’s it. It’s very gross and a hard lesson to learn, but try to look for men around your age for now. I’m sorry this happened to you.
I’m sorry girl, but you don’t have a partner. He was clearly just interested in finding someone to have sex with. The more time and energy you keep giving him the more pain you’re going to take on.
Nopers, walk away
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Move on and find you somebody that actually wants you. Men like this piss me off they make it harder for actual good men to get into relationships. He didn’t want you he just wanted sex but there are plenty of good honest single men that will be happy to date and love you. Drop the jerk and go find a good one
I’m sorry that you went through all that. I would advice you to stop seeing this guy, what would you advice your friend to do is she was in your situation?
I know it is easier from the outside but you deserve someone who treats you right and doesn’t leave you feeling confused and sad. I can imagine how hard things are being for you now but it will get better with time. Also, you didn’t do anything wrong, there’s just some people who are good taking advantage of others.
I’m truly sorry this is happening, it’s so frustrating when someone seems into you, then pulls back. Have you thought that maybe he’s just not ready for something serious?