Hi guys, english is not my first language so be pls be kind w me šā¤ļø
my step dad has been emotionally abusing me and incading my privacy like some low-key creep. Im 20+ years now and he still expects me to let him drop me off and pickme up from my varsity š not only that, he always goes through my phone without my consent.
He uses usb cable and connects it to the pc and easily transfers files from my android phone to his pc (specifically pictures) if he doesn’t find anything from there, he recently hacked into my google photos account bc i handed him my sim to recover some issues. He took his advantage and saved photos of me and my bf, along with my personal nsfw pictures.
When i found out ab this and deleted those from his phone, he freaked out like a maniac and broke off his own phone. It’s not the first time he saved my pictures to his phone.. it’s been happening for the past 7-8 years.
I’ve never complained and always apologized but now that my varsity classes haven’t started yet, I’m worried he’s gonna ruin these 3-4 years i have left with me to enjoy too. He’s the type of psycho to find the contacts in their website and ask ab my whereabouts, class routines to the varsity officials, infact he’ll even reach my varsity to check if im attending my classes or not, if not he’s definitely gonna create a drama there.
Idk what to do, im from Bangladesh and emotional abuses like these don’t get much attention over here, the laws are tricky. And im also not in the financial condition to bear expenses like that. People over here normalize this behavior more or less but THE WAY my step dad has been stalking me, invading my privacy and always manipulating me by saying he has pictures of me and he’s keeping them as a “proof” idk what that even means but.. im actually honestly so lost rn. I want both good and toxic advices tbh, please help me out w something that’s actually gonna work. I’ll pray for every kind soul who helped me out through this with his/her advices.
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Damn dude, your stepdad’s behavior is hella messed up, no cap! Feels like straight outta a creepy movie. I can’t even imagine how you’re dealing with all this crapstorm. I’d say, change all your passwords, go for two-step verification & pro tip: You don’t actually need a sim to recover google pictures, sounds fishy to me. Maybe it’s time to bring in law enforcement or some social service agency. Even if they don’t do much, it’ll atleast keep him in check. Worst case, plan out some exit strategy. Stay safe, man. šŖā¤ļø Be strong, you’ve got this! #StayDangerous #BreakTheChain
Oh boy. This sounds awful. Idk how youāve put up with it for so long. Have you thought about moving out on your own? If youāre 20+ thatās the most logical option. Get away from that abuse. Change your passwords, donāt let him have access to your phone. He doesnāt need to be all knowing of your personal life/information. If it comes to it, get legal people involved if he tries to threaten or blackmail you. Youāre an adult. Donāt take this abuse when you donāt have to. The most logical thing is to move out and cut these toxic people out of your life. Itās not worth it. Step dad or not, toxic people drain you
He sounds incredibly scary. Do you have family or friends to talk to? Also, Iād try to not be alone with him if you can. Make sure you have an exit
This is so disheartening, your step-dad is something else mehnā¦ Iām really sorry about everything. No one deserves to go through this.