I (f27) got a lot of problems with my trans sister (28). She was born and socialized male and outed herself as transgender when she was around 19-20. Shes very abusive and mentally ill.
We come from a very misogynistic family. Since I was little I was taught to serve my brother and that I am nothing more than a future incubator for children, a future housewife. Going into detail would take too much time.
My sister got raised very spoiled as she was male and viewed superior. While I was a teenager I started working a side job. My sister kept stealing money from me (2.4k Euros in total + Make Up worth over 100 Euros). I never confronted her about it as I knew my mom wouldnt do anything. My mom knew since day one but didnt intervene. My sister also kept stealing from my mother’s porte-monnaie.
During a fight in january, because she insulted my cats, she’d just scream “whore whore fkn slut” (20x..) etc. at me (mom watched and didnt say anything). I confronted her about stealing 2.4k Euros from me years ago and she screamed at me that I am a “fkn liar”. She actually sued me for defamation/ slander.
The court obviously immedietly denied her request. So I have nothing to worry about legally rn.
However I can’t do this anymore. I hate how for the first time I 100% stand up for myself she immedietly tries to silence me and legally harm me.
She know wants to go back to politics (she was alrdy a candidate before her outing and then resigned..). I am thinking of sending her political party proof of her stalking, harrassing and doxing her ex girlfriend.
She even threatened a f3mizid3 several times towards her.. Ofc its the only female ex she would threaten it to. All her trans women exes did not get threatened by her.
My trans sister went to court for that. And she got an extra fine for calling her a “slut” and flipping her off.. IN FRONT OF THE JUDGE.. She had to pay a huge amount of money to her ex girlfriend.
She wants to be a woman but hates women and views them as inferior. I am so done with this.
Thank god I moved out years ago…
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She gives all of us a bad name. What an absolute heel.
Internalized misogyny is one hell of a poison. I would cut ALL contact with her. Inform the political party of her dirty laundry, and get the fuck out of there. You deserve peace. I’ve met trans women who are toxic like this and it’s because of their own self hatred. She can rot in her own toxicity. I’m so sorry that you’ve had to endure all that and I’m proud of you for not viewing all trans women as if they’re like your sister. She needs therapy desperately.
Send the party the info. For sure.
“porte-monnaie” hello fellow frenchie! sorry youre going through this. i would rethink staying w your family over the holidays esp if your parents do nothing but enable her. I also agree with sending the political parties the proof. if ur worried, could you be a whilstleblower? do it anonymously? create an anonymous email & maybe log onto a public computer to send the proof?
Maybe she’s jealous of cis gender women and takes it out on women, namely you. Living your best life is the cure for this, that and cutting all contact. I’d 100% let the political party know, the world needs less pos leaders to be honest.
Yeah, violently jealous of you and the ex girlfriend. Get that info sent to the political party and then block, block, block! You deserve a peaceful, happy life, free of that walking disaster.
She’s toxic, cut ties and move on.
This has nothing to do with your sister being trans. She’s a bad, abusive person. Cut contact, notify the necessary people of her actions. You undercut your case by focusing on her being a woman.
Belgian?
If a trans woman who was an abuser was running for politics, I, as a voter, would absolute want to know.
Please cut this heinous person off, they are bringing nothing to your life. And while you’re at it, cut off your family as well.
You will be much happier in your life without these stones around your neck
Stay far far away from this shit show
I’m Im gonna be blunt and say her severe jealousy, alongside with potential body dysmorphia and misogynistic behavior she’s definitely a piece of work but I would advise you and your mother talk about mental evaluations. You two are already done, she stole 2.4 k euros from you mate, the only thing my sister would do is take $50(USA.) And even ask before hand.
Why are we pretending to take this serisously? Come on guys,
This is fake as hell
I think HE is mentally ill and wants the best of both worlds. I think there are absolutely trans people, and there are misogynistic and mentally ill men who want to bring women down and hypersexualize them through themselves. He seems like the latter
Say the line bart! “Severally mentally ill” there it is
Another karma farm account
Happy April fools!
I would also suggest you file a restraining order on her so it’s on record and go NC with your parents
> f3mizid3
What is this? Femicide?
FYI you can just say “murder”. This isn’t TikTok, the algorithm isn’t going to hide your post because you used violent words
Why do you see her? Cut her out of your life!
Def go no contact
Cut ties with all the lies that you’ve been livin in! But seriously you don’t owe your sister anything distance yourself and find peace.
There’s no way you are older than 17 😭😭😭😭😭 no way people think this is written by someone almost 30
Well your not gonna miss her.
Anyways welcome to your new life without her 🙂
Gross. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with a narcissist.
If it’s the Dems they aren’t going to care because they’ll be afraid of being labeled transphobic.