My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years since we were 15. He came out 2 weeks ago and his parents were supportive at first but they soured on him taking testosterone. They told him that he can identify however he wants but he can’t take T under their roof. So…. He’s moving in with me….. In my room…. Where we will sleep together in the same bed….. Every night…
I’m just scared. I’m scared for him, for what this means for our relationship, for what this means for myself. I feel like I have no idea what in the fuck do i do, like how do i live with my partner at only 18. Like he has slept over before but this is all of his stuff in my/our room. Him and I sleeping together every night and so much more. With that said I am totally willing to do this all for him. I just don’t know how to feel, I’m excited, scared, worried, happy, and all of the above.
TL;DR Boyfriend of 3 years is moving in with my family and i at 18, because of his family problems.
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Lean on your parents. They seem supportive.
I think you all need to discuss this with your parents. Maybe you boyfriend needs to have a plan on how th living situation will work, like: Will he have a job? Will he pay rent or any bills? Will he go to school? Does your parents have any rules? Is there a spare room he can sleep in?
Ultimately he needs to be working on being independent for his own health and safety.
Have your parents agreed to your boyfriend moving in with them?