We met online and we’re planning on meeting up sometime this year in September for out one year anniversary. Things are great, we never fight and stuff and if we have any issues we often resolve them pretty fast and apologize. The only thing is that she isn’t really romantically affectionate. She playfully bullies me and teases me a bunch and I think its funny but, she never says anything nice. She doesn’t say “I love you” or ever tell me “I miss you”. We call almost every day we can or every other day if we can. And recently I’ve been having the issue of where I’m struggling to find out what to say because I’m worried if she actually loves me or not. Because from what I see a lot of the time she just treats me like how she treats her friends at times. I do try to make advances to flirt but a lot of the time I just get shot down with an “Ew” and then we laugh it off. But its not like she doesn’t like me because I’m sure she does. She wants me to go over to her area and visit her and we speak about it often. She comes from a family where she isn’t shown a lot of love and they playfully tease one another. But how to I get her to be more romantic with me, what do I say?
TLDR: Girlfriend dosen’t try to be romantic with me, how do I communicate this to her?
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… ask her if she loves you or misses you more and indicate it would mean a lot to you if you could be more open with her feelings more.
Not that deep, babe. Just make your requests known and ask for reassurance when needed.