Before we started dating, he already was talking a bit to a girl he went to high school with and talked more when he started dating me (they didn’t hangout). He knew I’m uncomfortable when a guy has a girl friend because I broke up with my ex over it. Then he said he would text her less and however, they would snap everyday and it made me uncomfortable. Idk what they talked about and I kept telling him how it was making me uncomfortable and then he said he would stop talking to her and then blocked her. Then couple months pass and he sent me a screenshot and I mentioned why the girl’s name was in there and he said he reached out to her again because it has been a while and telling me that I should get over it. It felt like my feelings didn’t matter at all and then we fought about it. The whole time I also told him she doesn’t have a bf and he kept telling me she does and the whole time she’s been texting my bf just asking for comfort because she’s heartbroken and it’s just so uncomfortable for me. How would you guys feel if your boyfriend hid this from you? I just feel crazy for even thinking like this, like are my feelings valid?
Tldr; my bf hid talking to his girl friend from me. Are my feelings valid?