(STILL OPEN TO ADVICE!!!!)
so basically a month back my gf and i were fooling around she gave me head and i did cum then i wiped it with a paper towel afterwards we decided to grind a bit so i wore a condom but the thing is it was my first time so i accidentally touched the other side of the condom with my tip and then wore it we grinded but didn’t penetrate (she was on her period during this time)
after a few days she came over again we were fooling around once again she gave me head i came then wiped it and then this time i wore a condom and touched my tip with only the outer parts of the vagina (the lips)
its been a month since then and she hasnt gotten her period yet we’re both really stressed about it at first we both thought its most likely due to stress that her period is getting delayed since we both started college recently only but its been a week since her due date and her cycle is really irregular, im really worried im a virgin and idk how this works and the thing is we can’t tell our parents as theyre really strict and conservative
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What the fuck did I just read? Next time rub your dick on a power socket.
Yes. You are cooked. Plan the baby shower.
Yes. You are cooked. Plan the baby shower.
Take a pregnancy test immediately, and get resdy for some real Tough Love!!
NEVER, EVER BUT NEVER put your penis on or in a vagina unless it is properly dressed for the occasion in a condom. Use a spermicide with non-oxynol 9 along with the condom for best results.
If the condom breaks or comes off, take Plan B pronto!
The pullout “method” is only considered a birth control “method” because some people (VERY unwisely!) use it as such. It is just a hair above useless.
I spent ten years at Planned Parenthood, comforting hundreds of sobbing girls who insisted that their positive pregnancy test was wrong “because he didn’t come!” “He pulled out first!” ” He only put the tip in!” “He didn’t penetrate me, he just played on the outside of my vagina!”
They were wrong and their pregnancy test WAS right, and they were pregnant.We called kids who use Pullout TEEN PARENTS.
Am I scaring you? I HOPE SO because your future is too important to risk for a half hour of panting and moaning!
Have your girlfriend take a pregnancy test NOW. I truly hope this is a false alarm for your, and her, sake. I wish only the best for both of you, and that you don’t become another couple whose future and dreams are destroyed or derailed because of a few minutes in your lives.
Good luck and best wishes. I DO mean that.
You’ll be fine. I was 17 trying to have sex with a guy for the first time and we both got freaked out because he came near me- not in me. We thought i got pregnant lmao. What a time.
you sound a little too your and uneducated to be doing any of this.
first thing first, the chances of her being pregnant are astronomically low. this said you both need to get a lot more proper sex education. the basics are rather important.
Just to be safe and sure, take a pregnancy test
And learn from now on- only with a condom
You still refer to yourself as a virgin so I’m guessing you’ve never actually penetrated so far? You’re fine lol. I can tell sex education has gone way down seeing how many young people write posts like this on reddit, seemingly thinking any penis contact with a vagina equals almost certain pregnancy. There are couples who try for years intending to get pregnant who don’t despite using zero protection or precautions.
If you accidentally came inside without pulling out then I’d be worried. But what you guys did is not even penetrative sex.
You’ll be fine.
Although I will add that you should educate yourself on sex and reproduction to avoid this type false alarm anxiety
Dude, unless the sperms actually gets inside her vaginas you’re good. If you’re that worried she can take a test. But no, she’s not pregnant. But periods can be wacky. Sometimes mine are 28 days apart and other times like 34 days apart. Breathe.
Study the calendar method too, it helps a lot when you’re sexually active.
Sperm are swimmers, not high jumpers or pole vaulters. You’re fine. Your sex education department at whatever school you went to…not so much.
There are no “free first tries.” The Prince Regent’s wife slept with him only once, and got pregnant. (There is a remote link there to my family tree.) It sounds as though you are O.K., but it would be nice to have something in writing.
If you don’t know how this works you shouldn’t be having sex… educate yourself first
Kids nowdays 😅