TDLR: situationship was good for two months then soft Ghosts me after we had talk about what we are.
Hello Reddit this is my first post hopefully yall can help me out and give me some advice (sorry if this seems like a ramble I’m drunk and am pretty illiterate lol) A couple years ago I was working outta town and matched with this gal on tinder named Hailey but before we could meet up I got laid off and was sent back home, we kept talking for awhile till she told me she was coming down to visit some family near where I lived, when she came down we ended up going on a couple dates and I was head over heels from the moment I laid eyes on her, on our second date we ended up going to the beach late at night and some things happened on that bench which I’d rather not say online( but I’m sure yall can figure it out haha) and when went back to my place she very sexual and pounced on me. after that she ended up going back home up north and we kept talking on Snapchat for awhile, after she left I ended up starting to see someone new named cass and couple months later I ended up moving to the small town up north for a better life where Hailey lived, after a 15 hr drive i called her to tell her I was moving and she wanted me to come over so I did I hung out with her and the roommate and ended up sending the night after that in the morning we made plans to hangout again, I ended up going back to my place and messaged for a couple days and she ended up ghosting me, I was pretty upset and ended up talking to the last girl cass who I was talking to and flew her up we ended up dating for almost a year and made plans for her to move up here when I bought a house, but once I bought that house she didn’t wanna move up here anymore so we ended up breaking up because I didn’t wanna do long distance anymore. After a month I decided to message Hailey again and once we starting hanging out again we where two peas in a pod, every moment we weren’t working we where together for two months but almost a week ago I asked for us make us official and she didn’t wanna do it because of past relationship trauma which I understood but now over the last week she’s been distant and i barely see her and she barely responds to my texts and I just don’t know what to do, I really like her and we get along very well but I don’t think I can drag this on anymore (there more to this story but I just can’t type it all out if yall have any questions just ask and I’ll try my best to respond) Also I should mention she’s a barrel racer And if yall don’t know what that is look for the song barrel racer land on Spotify lol