Hi, I’m 17f living in Ireland .I live with my parents. My father is always shouting about anything and everything, he thinks the world is ending. Also we live in a mobile home and we were homeless for nearly two years. I must find a way out but I’m scared and confused, I will get a job ASAP but I live in a rural area so it’s difficult. Any advice or motivational words would really help me right now đâ¤ď¸â¤ď¸
Need to move out
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I think you need to list the country! That makes huge difference. In my country, I’d naturally advise you to just go to a uni and live in a cheap dorm. Because unis are free here. But sadly I’d suppose this is not your case đ
Youâre already stronger than you know. Just taking steps, even small ones, means youâre moving forward. Itâs okay to be scare just donât stop. You will get out. One step at a time. You got this â¤ď¸ ur father is probably stressed out but it’s not ur fault he’s like that. You cannot change ur family but you can create a family where everyone is at peace, considerate, and kind
hold faith that if you maintain your desire/intent and pray for support, Life will meet you and support you in ways you cannot expect or anticipate. pray everyday morning and night. pray to who / what you believe is âGreaterâ
Connect your desire/intent with deep felt motivation – what you believe is true and just, a meaningful purpose to pursue (even if its say, to simply to be kind and contribute to a peaceful enviornment). stay with that motivation, let it cook you.
speak of your goal out loud, in the present, in a way that feels true. notice what happens in your body. use present participle not future tense (ie âi am learning vs i will learn⌠what it takes to move outâ). remember to speak to yourself (mirror helps) of this but not to most others- others negative perception can tarnish strength of your prayerful intent.
i know its hard, but honor your parents as they gave you Life, regardless of what else they did or didnt give you. find gratitude for what you got – your life. and establish enegetic boundaries. your farher is older than you, you dont know whats best for him, honor him and his fate with love, and turn towards your future.
hope that helps â¤ď¸â˛ď¸đ
You’re strong for even wanting better. Start small⌠a job, online if needed. Look into local resources or school help. Youâre not stuck forever. One step at a time. Youâve got this. â¤ď¸