When I was in 8th Grade I went to my friends house. Her Dad had allowed us to have alcohol and at one point asked us to go to the hot tub. I remember it being really weird. She told me she has had sex before but could not tell me with who or she would be in trouble. Fast forward and my family and I moved into a super cute townhouse, the other night I went on Megan’s Law when I could not sleep and saw we have a registered sex offender living in our townhouses, directly across from my kids bedroom window. I looked at the photo and realized he was my friends Dad from when we were young and I found out he molested her from age 10 to 19. I sat down with my daughter and explained we are not to talk to this guy and showed her the photos. She said “he says hi to me all the time” I told her when he says hi next she needs to tell me. Within 20 min of her playing with the Neighboor’s outside (I can see her out my window” he was walking from his car parking spot and said hello to her. I do not want to catch a harassment charge but I also do not want this guy saying hello to my daughter. What should I do? My Husband doesn’t seem concerned but I’m a mess about it, maybe because I’ve been SA before but I just hate this. Advice please.
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Your husband stock concern? This guy who has a record of being a job and Lester is speaking to your daughter in approaching a playground, and your husband isn’t concerned?
I’m not asking this question to be unkind, but is he mentally challenges? I mean what in this situation makes him think it’s not a big deal?
I think you should go and knock on that guy door with your husband and tell him point blank. You don’t want him speaking to your kid and you don’t wanna see him within 100 feet of your kid.
And I would let your other neighbors know. Because this guy it would seem is still an active predator.
You might also mention it to the police department. His parole officer, my want to have a word with him.