I (22F) have been dating my boyfriend (21M) for five months. We are extremely compatible and finishing up our last year of grad school this year. As we transition out of school I am trying to think of how to approach the future logically. By the time we graduate we will have been together for more than a year, is this enough time to warrant moving in together?
Ive had a few relationships that have lasted years and I truly think he is the one. I just dont want to sound delusional when I ask him if he wants to plan a post graduation life with me, even typing that out sounds a bit crazy given how little time we have been together. Im just extremely in love. I know we are on the same page for wanting to be together long term.
I feel like this conversation is just super early into our relationship but if we dont plan to get post grad jobs near each other what is the next steps for the future? Is this something we wait out and go long distance? I guess im just asking for advice on what options are or what other people did in similar situations, I dont want to jump the gun and move steps along too quickly, ive never lived with a partner before so I dont even know when its too soon.
TLDR: my bf and i will be together for a little more than a year when we graduate, what do next steps look like in this instance? Is moving in together too soon? Is long distance the option here?